As I sit here in the Studenterhuset, or the Student House in english, enjoying my 20 kroner latte waiting for my next class 5 hours from now, I figured I had enough time to go on a little rant about Denmark versus America.
I have decided to study public health here in Denmark. While
my major back home is business with a concentration in marketing, my minor is
public health. If I really had things my way, I would be majoring in public
health, but unfortunately my school does not offer that. My school also really
only offered one class specifically geared towards public health, so I thought,
Denmark is known for their fantastic universal health care system, why not
study there instead? I have yet to regret this decision. The health care system
in Denmark is fascinating, especially because it is the polar opposite of
private health care in the U.S. I could entirely write in depth on everything
I’ve learned so far about health care here, but I don’t want to bore you too
much. Their health care isn’t the only thing different from the U.S., it’s also
the people and their way of life. So now, just because I’ve had a burning
desire to talk about this, I’m gonna go on a rant as to how and why Danes are
so different in the best possible way.
I clearly remember the first time I noticed something that
was a little off… I remember it so well because it pissed me off for a week. I
have no idea why it got to me so much, but it just plain old annoyed me. I was
sitting down on a bench after a concert next to this group of people, and the
table was a little packed. One woman got up and I thought she was leaving for
good so I scooted over a bit, happy for some extra room to spread out. Several
minutes later the woman came back and instead of saying “excuse me, can I have
my seat back” (or something along those lines), she actively nudged me and said
“move.” Now, most Americans, like myself, would find this rude. Of course I
happily would have moved if she had only asked, but that was not the case. I
know this rant might sound pitiful, but it actually says a lot about Danes.
It was not until a couple weeks later when I was in my
Danish 101 class that I found out that this was normal. Danes are not very social in public, unless they are with
friends of course. But what I mean is that they don’t talk with other people
when they are out and about on trains or buses or just walking around. They
keep to themselves. After the initial annoyance with the bench incident, this
nudging thing happened many times. I take the train to my classes in the city,
and it’s usually pretty packed and quiet. If I’m sitting on the outside of a
seat and the person next to me on the inside wants to get off at the next stop,
they will start to noisily pack their things and make it obvious that they want
me to move to let them get by. They will do almost anything to not talk to you.
Now that I know this, I think it’s pretty funny, and I no longer consider it
rude because that’s just the way things are here. Danes are quiet and modest in
public, they are very conscientious about how their actions might effect other
people. So, lesson #1, Danes don’t talk in public, so pay attention to social
cues and don’t be offended when they do something you would consider impolite.
Also, just adding to the train atmosphere before I forget…
If you get on the train, and you find yourself sitting in the quiet section, BE
QUIET. I usually take the train alone so I have no reason to talk whatsoever,
but there was one occasion when I noticed that the person sitting across from
me was from DIS too, so of course I said hello. Bad decision. As soon as I
uttered the words, “Hi! You’re part of DIS too?” Even though I said them
relatively softly, every head in the compartment turned to look at me. Can you
say, AWKWARD??? Needless to say, the conversation was very short. People use
the quiet section of the train to do work, sleep, or just think in a calm
environment. I’ve heard stories of other DIS students from the states going
into the quiet sections of trains and actively getting kicked out for talking
loudly. My Danish teacher even admitted that that might have been a bit harsh.
But still, when in Denmark, do as the Danes do.
In one of my earlier posts noted that Denmark is known to be
the happiest country in the world. I NOW KNOW WHY. I feel like I’ve unlocked
Pandora’s box. Everything makes sense now! The only way to really sum it up is
to say that money is NOT a factor here in Denmark. I don’t know how to write
down everything, so I’m just going to make some lovely bullet points:
- Lesson #2: Education is FREE, and on top of that, people are
PAID to be students *envy.* Going to college here is free because it
is paid with taxes. And the state knows that students don’t have much time to
work, so they even give them a monthly stipend of around 6,000 kroner, which is roughly $1,000. This system
doesn’t put any pressure on Danes. It allows them to study what they want to
study and when they want to do it. It’s not a big deal to take a year or two
off and travel or work. This system also allows students to figure out what
they want to become at whatever pace if comfortable for them. And boy do I envy
that. In the states, it is socially acceptable to enter college right after
high school. People can take a year off, but it’s rare. Danes wind up doing
what makes them happy. Not to mention the fact that they don’t have thousands
of dollars in loans looming over their heads when they leave college.
- Lesson #3: As I mentioned before, health care is also free.
Doctor visits, surgery, emergency treatment, almost everything is taken care of
by the state. The only downside may be waiting lists for treatment or doctor
visits, but overall the health care in Denmark allows Danes the opportunity to
stay healthy throughout their lives. Again, I could keep going but I don’t want
to bore you =P
- Lesson #4: Danes are chill. They just are. Because money is
not an issue, they don’t have much to worry about. They just have a good time.
I have a theory for this. The drinking age in Denmark starts at 16, where they
can purchase beer and other “light” alcoholic beverages. At the age of 18, they
can buy hard liquor like vodka and aquavit. Because it’s legal for them to
start drinking at an earlier age, they go out more. Because they start going
out with their friends to bars and parties at such a young age, they learn to
take of themselves earlier on. Families are very close and trusting, so parents
allow their children to go out and have a good time, trusting their kids to
make the right choices, and if they don’t, then they learn from it. Danes have
to start making responsible choices for themselves at a young age, therefore
making them more mature compared to Americans of the same age. I have met many
Danes my own age at this point, and they all seem so advanced in maturity
compared to myself. I always have to ask them how old they are because while
they might seem 25 to me, they are actually only 20.
- Lesson #5: Danes don’t dwell on the little things. As you
read earlier, I was instantly annoyed with the bench incident. If I were a true
Dane, I would build a bridge and get over it. Biking is very popular here, so
accidents are just bound to happen. People get cut off and bumped into, but
what I’ve noticed is that the Danes look annoyed for a second, and then just
get over it. They don’t really even say anything, they just keep going.
- I recently read an article on why Danes are so happy, and
their main finding was because they don’t have high expectations. Lesson #7:
Danes don’t expect or take more than they need. In America, people are always
striving to make a lot of money so that they can have a comfortable or
luxurious life style. Here in Denmark, people just aim for comfortable, and
don’t worry about money so much because they know they can fall on the welfare
system if they really have to. The average workweek is 37 hours, and they get 6
weeks of vacation. Think about that. Let that sink in. Kinda jealous?? Me too.
They spend time with their family and friends, eating and drinking to their
hearts content. And while the taxes here are ridiculously high, after what I’ve
learned, it seems so worth it.
- Lesson #6: Danes love candles. There’s no explanation to
this. They just do. It’s a very catchy trend, I’m now wondering why I never
used candles before. They create a warm and cozy atmosphere, also known as
“hygge” to the Danes.
Me lovin' the candles in the Studenterhuset.
I can't think of any other major differences for now, but if I do (and I'm sure I will) I will definitely mention it later on. Overall, I love the lifestyle of the danes. They are laid back and really try to do things that make them happy. The welfare system allows them to live comfortably, no matter how much money they make. If a Dane wants to do something, they can do it, they just have to want it.
Thanks for reading!
xoxo,
Sarah
